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The five-minute fix

by | Apr 23, 2015

The Five-Minute Fix People love telling you that time heals all wounds. It takes time. You'll look back on this and laugh someday. And yet, if you ask around a bit more, plenty of people will also tell you honestly that some of the hurt never fully leaves; it just...

Processing Verses Ranting

by | Apr 15, 2015

Processing Versus Ranting In the years leading up to my divorce, I'd get together with friends and, occasionally, sit around discussing how irritating our partners were being that week. As things got worse between me and my ex-husband, that became basically the only...

Defending the Battlements

by | Apr 14, 2015

Defending the Battlements Last night I went to a workshop on personal boundaries: identifying them, maintaining them, and communicating them to other people. I went mostly out of curiosity, since I've always assumed I had reasonably good boundaries and think of myself...

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Advocate, Mom, Writer

My days these days are mostly advocacy, with my kids always first, and hiking, biking, and cold plunging worked in whenever I can. Winter cold plunges aren’t for everyone, but there’s a strange kind of beauty and calm in it that I’ve come to need.

Separation was a journey. It took time, and it taught me most of what I know now.