It's a Journey

The Checklist doesn’t solve it

The Checklist Doesn't Solve It My blog post ideas usually hit me on the head when I'm struggling. Today's struggle was getting my kids out the door to school. This seems straightforward in theory. I even made a checklist, taped to the fridge: Wake up, 7:30 am. Get...

Custody of Kitty

This is Kitty And this is Kitty out enjoying nature.  Looks like a fireman Lego with a Darth Vader cape and falling-off headphones, you might think. Oh, how wrong you'd be. Kitty, the combination of Lego man and Lego cat, the unit is called Kitty, caused a lot of...

Rest Got me here

Rest Got Me Here My blogging has taken a hit lately. My last post was February 3rd. That's a long time. Blog hiatuses are a pattern with me. Tax season, kids, summer, Kits Pool, biking, hiking, life in general- they all get in the way. In the past, guilt would have...

What If?

What If What do you normally think right after those two words? I tend to think: what if... catastrophe. My propensity to imagine the worst is so deeply ingrained that even after proving to myself,...

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Not Enough

Not Enough What's your relationship with money? I ask because I've assumed for a while now that yours looks something like mine. Lately I've noticed my assumptions tend to get me into trouble....

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Advocate, Mom, Writer

My days these days are mostly advocacy, with my kids always first, and hiking, biking, and cold plunging worked in whenever I can. Winter cold plunges aren’t for everyone, but there’s a strange kind of beauty and calm in it that I’ve come to need.

Separation was a journey. It took time, and it taught me most of what I know now.