It's a Journey
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Processing Verses Ranting
Processing Versus Ranting In the years leading up to my divorce, I'd get together with friends and, occasionally, sit around discussing how irritating our partners were being that week. As things...
Defending the Battlements
Defending the Battlements Last night I went to a workshop on personal boundaries: identifying them, maintaining them, and communicating them to other people. I went mostly out of curiosity, since...
Noticing the Thoughts
Noticing the Thoughts In her book The Soul of Money, Lynne Twist writes about how many of us wake up with the same automatic thought before we've even had a chance to question it: not enough sleep,...
So You’ve Just Signed Your Separation Agreement
So You've Just Signed Your Separation Agreement Congratulations. Finalizing a separation agreement is a real achievement, and it usually comes at the end of a genuinely stressful, emotional stretch...
Advocate, Mom, Writer
My days these days are mostly advocacy, with my kids always first, and hiking, biking, and cold plunging worked in whenever I can. Winter cold plunges aren’t for everyone, but there’s a strange kind of beauty and calm in it that I’ve come to need.
Separation was a journey. It took time, and it taught me most of what I know now.