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Divorced and Still on the Hook

by | Sep 15, 2015

Divorced and still on the hook Growing up, I was always told I'd be responsible for paying my own way through university. My parents wanted me to go, but they also wanted me to learn financial independence early. I'm honestly not sure if that was a deliberate...

Working from home with kids

by | Sep 10, 2015

  Working From Home With Kids I keep a file of half-started blog posts, and today, searching for something to finish, I opened one called "Working From Home With Kids." Surprise, surprise: it was blank. That probably says everything already. It's hard to work...

Strategies for Dealing with Transition Days

by | Aug 27, 2015

Strategies for Dealing with Transition Days Are you in the middle of a transition day? There are two types of transition days: the ones where the kids leave to go stay with their other parent, and the ones where they come back to you. Let's deal with the leaving days...

Borrowing Trouble

Nov 24, 2014 |

Borrowing Trouble My coach used an old idiom with me the other day: that some people have a habit of "borrowing trouble," and it landed. I've always avoided borrowing things generally (except my...

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I can do it

Nov 10, 2014 |

I Can Do It There are a lot of negative thoughts out there that keep a person stuck in place. I know, because these particular ones kept me stuck for years. I let them steer my actions without ever...

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Advocate, Mom, Writer

My days these days are mostly advocacy, with my kids always first, and hiking, biking, and cold plunging worked in whenever I can. Winter cold plunges aren’t for everyone, but there’s a strange kind of beauty and calm in it that I’ve come to need.

Separation was a journey. It took time, and it taught me most of what I know now.