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Use the Discomfort

by | Nov 4, 2014

Use the Discomfort Today I woke up feeling unmotivated. I tried to work for a bit, decided it wasn't going anywhere, and took a break instead. I got to thinking about how cold my house was, the pilot light on the boiler had probably gone out again. I emailed my tenant...

I’m (Not) Worried About You

by | Oct 27, 2014

I'm (Not) Worried About You "I'm worried about you." I'll never forget when someone said that to me. It was the last day of my back-to-work training course, and the facilitator looked at me with genuinely understanding eyes and said, "I worry about you." Out of twenty...

The People Pleaser trap

by | Oct 22, 2014

The People Pleaser Trap I got to start over- thank you, divorce- and my first real step in starting over was figuring out who I actually was and what I valued. I know by now that if I'm not living according to my own values, I end up unhappy, unmotivated, and...

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Advocate, Mom, Writer

My days these days are mostly advocacy, with my kids always first, and hiking, biking, and cold plunging worked in whenever I can. Winter cold plunges aren’t for everyone, but there’s a strange kind of beauty and calm in it that I’ve come to need.

Separation was a journey. It took time, and it taught me most of what I know now.